"Women who are on the pill when they pick a mate end up
with longer-lasting relationships than those who are not. The downside? Less
satisfaction in the sack, apparently.
Studies
show that women on the pill are attracted to different men than when
they are not on the pill. One explanation is that because the pill simulates
pregnancy, women tend to head for traits associated with fidelity.
Now the effects of these choices have been tested for the
first time outside the lab. Craig Roberts from the University of Stirling, UK, and
colleagues surveyed 1000 women who had been taking the pill when they met their
partner and 1500 who were not. All of the women had at least one child with
this partner.
The team measured the women's levels of sexual and general
relationship satisfaction, as well as how long the relationship lasted.
Women on the pill when they met their partner were
significantly less sexually satisfied, but reported higher levels of general
satisfaction in the relationship, such as financial support and partner
loyalty. They were also more likely to stay together.
During fertile cycle phases, women seek out traits such as
masculine faces, which are associated with good genes but also infidelity.
Because women on the pill don't have such hormone shifts they may be more
sensitive to traits which lead to longer relationships, says Roberts."
For once I have to say, this is utter cr*p. I can count on one hand the amount of guys I have dated in 12 years of being on the pill who have remained faithful. Yes that's a sad statistic but nevertheless it is a statistic that (in my case at least) disproves this piece of "science". I am not attracted to traits associated with fidelity, clearly!
Maybe I should attempt coming off the pill in order to meet a man who isn't likely to be unfaithful?
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